My name is Claire, and I would want to discuss a significant period of my life that began with a deep sense of self-loathing but ultimately led to an unexpected journey of empowerment and new opportunities. This transformation happened both during and following a business gathering at the lavish home of my husband Tim’s boss. My husband’s thoughtless comment changed the course of what was meant to be a fun-filled evening into a pivotal moment in my life.

The grandeur of the backdrop and the excellent clothing of the attendees instantly made me nervous when we arrived at the opulent place. Even though I was wearing my prettiest clothes, I felt extremely self-conscious about my postpartum figure, having given birth three months previously. Tim was really eager to show me around his colleagues and their spouses, maybe as a way of gaining favor with his boss.