Support for Women Associated with Married Men:

You’ve found out that you’re having an affair with a married man. What happens next? Take a step back and look at the wider picture before investing too much energy on this misguided loyalty.

Let’s talk about those seductive morals first. It’s true that everyone has a moral code; some people are just more endearing than others. But for now, set aside the moral quandaries and think about your own well-being and future. When it comes to their relationship, women in this scenario often wear rose-colored glasses, viewing things through an idealized rather than realistic lens.

This is a tough pill to take: Most married men are unlikely to leave their women, even in spite of their professed sonnets of steadfast love. Yes, it is the harsh reality. When they play the part of the “other woman,” many women go ignored and their relationship is marginalized when their partner goes on family vacations.

It’s crucial to ask yourself if you truly believe that this man and you will last. Consider the likelihood that he would act in the same way toward other women if he is consistent—which isn’t always a good thing in this case. Because it’s a vicious loop, you might be the next person he catches riding his carousel.

Reconsider your goals for this relationship and the valuable time you are squandering on someone who might not ever truly value you in return. In the end, pursuing true happiness should be your top priority.